A Mother's Blessings: Behind every strong man is supportive woman!

"Have you ever considered that your husband has similar notions of what his dream wife would be like? As a little not he probably didn't sit around reading fairy tales about becoming a prince -- a warrior, maybe-- but not the neat-and-tidy young man who placed his lips upon Snow White's to wake her from a cursed sleep."

~ Becoming the Woman of His Dreams by Sharon Jaynes

I came across this book, I was in the search of how do I become the "Ideal Wife", and how do open my eyes and heart to God's plan of being the Woman of His Dreams. I read a little section of it. I giggled when I read this! It seemed so true! As a wife I never thought about it that way before. Then I see my son, and yes he knows fairy tales, but all he sees is a Knight, who fights stinky dragons and goes to battle who protects. He never says look how clean and sweet that prince is! And that's our men! They see WARRIOR & DEFENDER, when they where kids. We've been thinking of the perfect mate forever, but our husbands never thought about it til teens or when he met you! As I was reading this book, I found it interesting! It talked about everything I always have been asking!

"The woman of your man's dreams prays for him, respects him, adores him, initiates intimates friendship with him, safeguards her marriage, encourages him, and sexually fulfills him. While each man is as different as the prints on his fingertips, these 7 qualities were universal."

~ Becoming the Woman of His Dreams by Sharon Jaynes

I spoke to a few women I look up to, and they ALL seem to say the same thing. First, be his support, even though you don't understand it, and its not harmful to him and the family. Second, Pray for him. Be his very own prayer warrior! To know that you are there to be his support system, who is positive, and encouraging, is the most amazing thing to a man! I encourage all you ladies to part of your husbands daily activities in PRAYER and Encouragement!

"She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life."

Proverbs 31:12

Blessings

Tina